Forgiven Even Those We Dont Want To

No one goes thought out life without any scratches or wounds to body or soul. It is a natural part of life all are born into a fallen world. The great thing about the gospel is Christ came to redeem men from the fall and be uplifted to heaven. For that is the life and mission of Christ for the immortality and Eternal life of man. This comes by and thought the atonement of Jesus Christ.

I was once a man told me in tears that the two people he hurt the most was his wife and his first son. This had a huge affect on me. I ponder  on this many times. Then i thought this two people we spend some most time and are the first experience in this field. Many times of stress, anger, frustration we may make remark or do action that we may not do other wise do or say. I have seen that the most important principle of young families is forgiveness.

 Maintain a happy marriages and family is life's hardest  challenges in life. Being new at  it just makes it even harder. Cause all a now you are required to use skill and talent that you have never had to use before. So all family's and marriages will have a bumpy road,  have unforeseen curves, and some time stops along the way . this is all part the great dance of life.

The question is how you respond to when thing turn in wrong way. What do you do when your spouse or family member says or does thing and hurts both physical and emotional.  Remember we all fall short of the glory of God and are sinners.  So  in affect we are all hurting each other, and need to repent. If wish for forgiveness for my actions i must for forgive them for there actions against me.

To forgive is move on. Not to put it  into a chest of weapons to us against them in a later time. Forgive is forgetting and putting the past behind us  and going on. This will heal the wounds of any marriage and family.  I have seen it many of times. Yes if a spouse it is abusive you are to get away for the problem. But we are required to forgive all men. Even those we don't want to.

When voices rise, hard words said, anger in your heard and mind. Take the time to cool down, don't throw all the hard work in family and marriage for just  a pasting remark that is might hurt. Its not worth the pain and suffering  to said or do some thing is heat of the moment that will only cause even more pain and suffering.  Remember Christ showed us the way. By learning of him and trying to be like him will bring the great peace, joy, and happiness in family life.