In Family's we find some people we love the most. But because we all are human they are some people we hurt the most. A good family relationship is like fine porcine. A beautiful thing that that is created careful by our actions and words. But is can be destroyed so easily. Just one bad action and word and destroy all that work it takes to build it. that way we must be like Christ. He was the perfect example for all of us.
All family argue, but its up to us to control the situation to limit the arguments and fighting as much as possible. But how do you do. In the Book of Mormon, 3 nephi 11: 29For verily, verily I say unto you, he that hath the spirit of acontention is not of me, but is of the bdevil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another. So when Satan attacks your family with causing contention. We must put off spirit of contention and try our best to do and say what Jesus would say. Its easy to angry and hard to do what Christ would do, it great peace and joy comes as we follow Christ.
One other good tip is to use i statements instead of you statements. So instead of saying "you are so lazy" you say something like "i feel like giving up when you dont help". I statements show our true feelings in non contentions way. Lasty love is a choice, if you love some one. You choice to overlook their weakness and love them for who they are
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